As a first-time dad, it is
hard to know if you are doing it right. It is also really hard to know if a
bond is actually being made because the baby might look at everybody the same
right now. At 2 months old, there isn’t much going on so how do you make a
difference, and an impression in their life as a dad? At this point, most moms
are on maternity leave so most of the baby’s time is spent with her. The Realistic Mama has some great ideas that I will touch on, and I
added a few tips from a New Dads United point of view.
1. Reading is a great way to
bond. At 2 months it mostly involves just cuddling with your baby and turning
the pages. The baby is actually getting a lot out of this, and you are spending
quality time to let her know she is worth the time.
2. Play! As they get a
little older they get more interactive, but even laying on the floor during
tummy time counts as playing. Smile and talk to her, and you will have her
heart forever!
3. Get some fresh air. I
know with the weather, this is a tough one, but sit outside for a few minutes
and get a small change of scenery.
4. Take turns feeding the
baby. I am currently going through trying this out as our baby has been
nursing. It is hard to bond in that way when they are nursing, but with some
extra effort and pumping, you can take over the night feedings for Mom and let
her get some extra sleep. This also allows you to get some quiet baby-daddy
time.
5. Switch up bedtime. Most
babies are on some sort of bedtime routine. Take over for a few nights or a
week if possible. Get her used to you putting her to bed now, and in the future
that bond will show.
By making time for just you
and the baby, you are not only creating a great bond, but you are giving Mom a
much needed break from the demands of a new baby. How do you bond with your
baby? Join our Facebook Group: Dads United to tell your ideas!
Tags: Baby, New Baby, New Dad, Baby Bonding, Ian Lobas
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